Illustrative: a $500,000 portfolio with 5% in gold ($25,000). Inputs: issuer expense ratios; the gold price held flat so only fees act; a 32% federal bracket for the tax line.
Over 20 years the fee gap between GLD and GLDM is about $1,430 on the same gold. Now the tax rule: selling with an $8,000 long-term gain in a taxable account costs up to $8,000 × 28% = $2,240 in federal tax, against $8,000 × 15% = $1,200 for the same gain on a stock index ETF. All three gold funds are taxed the same way, so the fund choice cannot fix this; the account choice can.
Rebalancing matters too. Illustrative: 60% VTI, 35% BND and 5% GLDM at the start of 2025, untouched. With 2025 returns of 17.1%, 7.1% and 64.2% (Exent market data), gold ends the year at 8.2 of 116.0, or about 7.1% of the portfolio. Trimming it back to 5% is the plan working, not a forecast. See how to rebalance.